Before You Begin

Before You Begin

You're about to read this story with your child because you want to share something that matters to you. This page is a quick, one-time read: a few thoughts on the conversation that might follow.

You're probably coming to this story with years behind you: years of hearing it before, thinking about it, maybe wrestling with what it means. Your child is just starting to build that same understanding, one story at a time.

So where you see something settled and familiar, they may still be working out the basic shape of it: who's who, what happened, why it happened at all.

That's usually what's behind a question that catches you off guard, or an answer that isn't the one you expected. It rarely means they're pushing back on the story.

More often, it just means they're still putting the pieces together.

Your instinct to help them understand is a good one. That instinct doesn't need to change. It can just help to find out what they already think before you add to it.

One way to ask

"Why do you think that?"

Or however it comes out naturally: "How did you understand that part?" · "What are you wondering about?"

Whatever they say, hear it first. Then you're free to explain, circle back to the story, or just say what's often true anyway: "That's a good question. Let's think about it together."

Kids usually don't run out of questions.
What can change, over time, is who they still feel comfortable bringing them to.

One more thing, before you start: you don't need to prepare this story, simplify it, or figure out how to explain it as you go. That part's already done. Each devotion is written in plain, easygoing language your child can follow, with the harder moments already thought through, so you can just sit down together and start reading.

Today's Story
David Is Chosen by Samuel
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David Is Chosen by Samuel: The One Who Was Still Outside

A simple way to talk with your child about a prophet with a horn of oil, seven brothers who passed before him, a boy who was not even in the room, and the words, God looks at the heart. Plus questions to explore together and a short family prayer.

The Story

The Boy Who Was Not There

The Lord said to Samuel, "How long will you mourn for Saul, since I have rejected him from being king over Israel? Fill your horn with oil and go. I am sending you to Jesse of Bethlehem, for I have provided a king for myself among his sons."

Samuel filled his horn with oil and set out.

When Samuel came to Bethlehem, the elders of the city came to meet him, trembling. "Do you come peaceably?" they asked.

"Peaceably," Samuel said. "I have come to sacrifice to the Lord. Consecrate yourselves and come with me." And he called Jesse and his sons to the sacrifice.

Pause For A Moment

Samuel has come to the house of Jesse, with a horn of oil in his hand, and Jesse’s sons are gathering around him.

What do you think everyone is wondering about Samuel’s visit?

Turn the page.

When Jesse’s oldest son Eliab came before him, Samuel looked at him and thought, "Surely the Lord’s anointed is before him." He was tall and strong. He looked like a king.

But the Lord said to Samuel, "Do not look on his face or on the height of his stature, because I have rejected him. I do not see as man sees. For man looks at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart."

So Jesse called his second son, Abinadab, and made him pass before Samuel. Samuel said, "The Lord has not chosen this one, either."

Then Jesse made Shammah pass by. "The Lord has not chosen this one, either."

Pause For A Moment

One by one, Jesse’s sons walk past Samuel. Tall son. Strong son. Fine-looking son. And after each one, Samuel shakes his head.

What do you think Jesse is thinking now? What would you be thinking?

Turn the page.

Jesse made seven of his sons pass before Samuel. And Samuel said to Jesse, "The Lord has not chosen these."

Then Samuel asked, "Are all your children here?"

And Jesse said, "There remains yet the youngest. And behold, he is keeping the sheep."

Samuel said, "Send and get him, for we will not sit down until he comes here."

So they sent for him and brought him in. He was ruddy, with a handsome face and good appearance.

And the Lord said to Samuel, "Arise! Anoint him, for this is he."

Then Samuel took the horn of oil and anointed him in the middle of his brothers. And the Spirit of the Lord came mightily upon David from that day forward.

The boy who had been sent out to watch the sheep was the one God had chosen.

For the Parent

How to Talk About This Story With Your Child

This chapter is as much about Samuel as it is about David. Samuel walked in and did what he had done all his life: he looked at the outside. He saw a tall, strong young man and was sure that was the one. God had to correct him.

The famous line is simple and worth leaving simple: "Man looks at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart."

The boy who was chosen was not even in the room when the choosing began. He was out with the sheep, doing his ordinary job, while his older brothers stood in front of the prophet. They told the story of the chapter better than any lesson could: the ones everyone could see were not the ones God picked.

Let the story say that. It says it best by itself.

Prayer

Pray Together

You do not have to use these exact words. You can tell God what you think about the story in your own words. Or you can pray this together:

Thank You, God, for the story of David being chosen. Thank You that You do not look at the outside like people do, and that You see each of us by heart. Help us be content with who we are, and help us see other people the way You do. Amen.

To Close

The Lord sent Samuel to the house of Jesse with a horn of oil. One by one, Jesse’s seven sons passed before him, and the Lord did not choose any of them.

"Are all your children here?" Samuel asked. And Jesse said the youngest was still out with the sheep.

They brought him in. And the Lord said, "Arise! Anoint him, for this is he."

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Common Questions

Why did Samuel go to Jesse's house?

The Lord told him to fill his horn with oil and go to Bethlehem, because he had provided a king for himself among the sons of Jesse (1 Samuel 16:1-3).

Why did Samuel pass over the seven brothers?

God told Samuel that he does not see as man sees: man looks at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart (1 Samuel 16:7). The seven brothers were not the ones God had chosen.

Who was the youngest son?

David. Jesse said, "There remains yet the youngest, and behold, he is keeping the sheep." When David was brought in, the Lord said, "Arise! Anoint him, for this is he" (1 Samuel 16:11-12).

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